How to Learn Better From Failures (And Successes Too)


It's often said that failure is the best teacher. Or at least, that failure is a better teacher than success.

But how exactly are we supposed to learn from failures without getting discouraged?

And why does success get such a bad rap as a teacher, anyhow? What if the problem is that we haven't been reflecting on our successes in the right way?

A 2014 study provides some clues on how to engage in a systematic post-performance review process that will help you learn better from both successful and unsuccessful performances or auditions.

Get all the nerdy details and this week’s practice hack right here:

How to Learn Better From Failures (And Successes Too)

-Noa

A couple things from the archives


  • Speaking of post-performance review processes, the same concept can apply to lessons as well. For more details on how, check out this episode with Met Opera timpanist Jason Haaheim.
  • Also, if after subpar performances or mistakes, you find yourself creating a story in your head about how awful or incompetent a musician (or person) you are, the tips in this article could help you develop a more effective and performance-enhancing "explanatory style."

Deep thought o' the week


"The art of life is not controlling what happens to us, but using what happens to us."

-Gloria Steinem, journalist

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